Russell Coker: Creepy Social Networking
Cory Doctorow wrote an interesting article about social networking [1]. One of his points is “Imagine how creepy it would be to wander into a co-worker’s cubicle and discover the wall covered with tiny photos of everyone in the office, ranked by “friend” and “foe,” with the top eight friends elevated to a small shrine decorated with Post-It roses and hearts“, another concerns the issue of forced “friends” where colleagues and casual acquaintances demand to be added to a friends list.
He speculates that the reason for social networking systems to be a fad is that once too many people you don’t really like force themselves into your friends list then you will feel compelled to join a different service.
I believe that the practice of ranking friends is simply a bad idea and wonder whether anyone who has completed high-school has ever used it seriously. If you publicly rank your friends then you will alienate other friends (particularly any who might have ranked you more highly than you ranked them). Everyone who has used social networking systems has discovered the pressure to avoid alienating people that you don’t actually like. It seems obvious that alienating people who you do like is even more of a problem.
In my previous post about Better Social Networking [2] I suggested having multiple lists on your social networking server that are published to different people. That would allow segregating the lists as a way of dealing with some demands to be listed. People who are associated with work (colleagues, managers, and in an example Cory used students at a school where a teacher worked) would be on a work list. The work list would point to the work profiles of other people which would match whatever the standards are for the industry in question (which would still allow quite a range, the standards for sys-admins of ISPs differ significantly from those for primary school teachers). I’m sure that someone who worked for an ISP in Amsterdam would understand that a work-based friend request made to someone who teaches primary school in a part of the world that is religiously conservative would understand why that request would be declined (but the same person might add them to a personal friends list).
Another way of alleviating such problems is to not require that listing be bi-directional. Current social networking systems involve one party making a friend request to another which is listed as pending in the GUI for both parties. The options are to either leave it in that state (which is an annoyance) or reject it (which may cause offence). With a uni-directional listing one party would add the other and hope for the best. If they aren’t obsessive about such things they may not even notice that the other party didn’t reciprocate. Also it would allow for famous people receiving links from many people to their public profile without any expectation of reciprocation. Of course a distributed social networking system such as I suggest would inherently have uni-directional links as there would be no central repository to force them to be all bi-directional.
As last Wednesday was the second anniversary of me joining Google, I thought
it an opportune time to reflect on how I've found learning
Information is currently not completely tripled checked but I would
advice all readers of this blog entry to think twice before upgrading
their Etch-based samba file servers to 3.0.24-etch6 (and maybe also 3.0.24-etch7). Same for 3.0.14a-sarge8 (and -sarge9).
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When Ubuntu announced public availability of Personal Package Archives, I
thought it might be good to use it to provide up to date Gammu related
packages. After successful registration I uploaded Gammu package and no
reaction so far, so I'll wait.
However this memorised me that I wanted to use OpenSUSE Build Service for same
purpose some time ago. I filled in registration and as I didn't receive any
email about being accepted, I absolutely forgot about that. Now just tried to
log in and it works. So you can now have access to latest Gammu, python-gammu
and Wammu packages for most recent RPM distributions (Fedora 7, Fedora 8,
Mandriva 2006, Mandriva 2007, openSUSE 10.2, openSUSE 10.3, openSUSE Factory,
SLES 9 and SLE 10). I could not test them so any feedback is welcome :-). You
can find all packages on
This Sony 22' display is fun to watch movies or tv. Installed Ubuntu on such a all in one desktop for a friend. As much as Debian improved visually thanks to newer Gnome and good upstream tango icons. I'm much less impressed by the visual appearance of Ubuntu 7.10. The compiz stuff is fun of course, but the replaced icon sets seem like a regression nowadays.
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I've seen plenty of good commentary on the
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What does this topic mean? Hmh... Maybe you don't know
Thanks for the comments/mails on my previous post.
I've now started the migration properly.
All code currently held upon cvsrepository.org will be moved to
The current status of the NM process, with 1 NM awaiting FD approval, 7 awaiting DAM approval, and 30 waiting for their accounts to be created, leads people to thinking that the big bottleneck is the account creation stage. However, when you look at what happened since december 2005, it’s not that simple.