Sean Whitton: reclaiming conversation
On Friday night I attended a talk by Sherry Turkle called Reclaiming
Conversation: The Power of Talk in a Digital Age . Here are my notes.
Turkle is an anthropologist who interviews people from different generations about their communication habits. She has observed cross-generational changes thanks to (a) the proliferation of instant messaging apps such as WhatsApp and Facebook Messenger; and (b) fast web searching from smartphones. Her main concern is that conversation is being trivialised. Consider six or seven college students eating a meal together. Turkle s research has shown that the etiquette among such a group has shifted such that so long as at least three people are engaged in conversation, others at the table feel comfortable turning their attention to their smartphones. But then the topics of verbal conversation will tend away from serious issues you wouldn t talk about your mother s recent death if anyone at the table was texting. There are also studies that purport to show that the visibility of someone s smartphone causes them to take a conversation less seriously. The hypothesis is that the smartphone is a reminder of all the other places they could be, instead of with the person they are with. A related cause of the trivialisation of conversation is that people are far less willing to make themselves emotionally vulnerable by talking about serious matters. People have a high degree of control over the interactions that take place electronically (they can think about their reply for much longer, for example). Texting is not open-ended in the way a face-to-face conversation is. People are unwilling to give up this control, so they choose texting over talking. What is the upshot of these two respects in which conversation is being trivialised? Firstly, there are psycho-social effects on individuals, because people are missing out on opportunities to build relationships. But secondly, there are political effects. Disagreeing about politics immediately makes a conversation quite serious, and people just aren t having those conversations. This contributes to polarisation. Note that this is quite distinct from the problems of fake news and the bubbling effects of search engine algorithms, including Facebook s news feed. It would be much easier to tackle fake news if people talked about it with people around them who would be likely to disagree with them. Turkle understands connection as a capacity for solitude and also for conversation. The drip feed of information from the Internet prevents us from using our capacity for solitude. But then we fail to develop a sense of self. Then when we finally do meet other people in real life, we can t hear them because we just use them to try to establish a sense of self. Turkle wants us to be more aware of the effects that our smartphones can have on conversations. People very rarely take their phone out during a conversation because they want to escape from that conversation. Instead, they think that the phone will contribute to that conversation, by sharing some photos, or looking up some information online. But once the phone has come out, the conversation almost always takes a turn for the worse. If we were more aware of this, we would have access to deeper interactions. A further respect in which the importance of conversation is being downplayed is in the relationships between teachers and students. Students would prefer to get answers by e-mail than build a relationship with their professors, but of course they are expecting far too much of e-mail, which can t teach them in the way interpersonal contact can. All the above is, as I said, cross-generational. Something that is unique to millenials and below is that we seek validation for the way that we feel using social media. A millenial is not sure how they feel until they send a text or make a broadcast (this makes them awfully dependent on others). Older generations feel something, and then seek out social interaction (presumably to share, but not in the social media sense of share ). What does Turkle think we can do about all this? She had one positive suggestion and one negative suggestion. In response to student or colleague e-mails asking for something that ought to be discussed face-to-face, reply I m thinking. And you ll find they come to you. She doesn t want anyone to write empathy apps in response to her findings. For once, more tech is definitely not the answer. Turkle also made reference to the study reported here and here and here.
Last week, while working on
My WordPress blog got hacked two days ago and now twice today. This morning I
purged MySQL and restored a good backup from three days ago, changed all DB and
WordPress passwords (both the old and new ones were long and autogenerated
ones), but not even an hour after the redeploy the hack was back. (It can still
be seen on
... but that doesn't mean the work is over.
One big job that needs to happen after the conference is to review and
release the video recordings that were made. With several hundreds of
videos to be checked and only a handful of people with the ability to do
so, review was a massive job that for the past three editions took
several months; e.g., in 2016 the last video work was done in July, when
the preparation of the 2017 edition had already started.
Obviously this is suboptimal, and therefore another solution was
required. After working on it for quite a while (in my spare time), I
came up with 
A pure maintenance release of the
My most loathed feature of
Here is how I managed to extend my
Better late than never, we'd like to welcome our three Outreachy interns
for this round, lasting from the 6th of December 2016 to the 6th of March 2017.
Welcome to gambaru.de. Here is my monthly report that covers what I have been doing for Debian. If you re interested in Java, Games and LTS topics, this might be interesting for you.
Debian Games
It has been a quiet start to the year due to work keeping me very busy. Most of my spare time (when not sitting shattered on the sofa) was spent resurrecting my old website from backups. My son had plenty of visitors coming to visit as well, which prompted me to restart work on my model railway in the basement. Last year I received a whole heap of track, and also a tunnel formation from a friend at work. I managed to finish the supporting structure for the tunnel, and connect one end of it to the existing track layout. The next step (which will be a bit harder) is to connect the other end of the tunnel into the existing layout. The basement is one of the favourite things for me to keep my son and his friends occupied when there is a visit. The railway and music studio are very popular with the little guests.
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