Russell Coker: Terms of Abuse for Minority Groups
Due to the comments on my blog post about Divisive Behavior [1] I ve been considering the issue of terms of abuse of minority groups a topic of which racial abuse is only one aspect.
It seems that there are many discussions about which terms are offensive and when they are offensive, most of which are very misguided. Solving this problem would be an almost impossible task, but I have some ideas which may help to improve the situation. I would appreciate any pointers to better ideas in comments or in blog posts that are inspired by this one.
One common mistake seems to be the idea that there are global objective criteria by which a statement can be proven to not be offensive. In any language that is constantly evolving (IE any language that s not dead) this seems impossible. It is particularly difficult with a language like English which is widely used in different countries and cultures. If a member of a minority group claims that you have just offended them then it seems most reasonable to have the default assumption be that you have said or done something which is actually offensive. In such a situation an immediate apology for the misunderstanding should be well accepted, but a debate about who s cultural standards should be used for determining what is offensive probably won t get a positive reception.
It seems extremely difficult (if not impossible) for a member of the majority group to properly understand what members of a minority group experience. So therefore attempts to understand why certain terms are offensive are likely to be doomed to failure. Sometimes if a certain word is used and then a group of people immediately get really angry you just have to accept the fact that it s not a good word to use. One common example of this is words that are associated with violence if someone associates a particular term with a threat of serious injury or death then you won t be able to convince them that it s not a big deal, but there are more subtle things of a similar nature.
It s worth trying to understand people and these things can be productively discussed between friends. But a discussion of such things is not viable during the course of a debate. If involved in a debate with someone you really dislike it doesn t seem like a good strategy to start a meta-discussion about whether they should regard one of your statements as being unreasonably offensive (regarding minority group status) as opposed to the level of offense that is acceptable in debate (something like that s the most ridiculous argument I ve ever heard may offend the recipient but is not inherently unreasonable).
Words tend to have multiple meanings. Claiming that your intent was significantly different from the way your message was interpreted probably isn t going to work well unless accompanied by an apology. Even I m sorry you were offended (which is not the best apology) will probably do.
Finally I m sure that anyone who does Google searches dating back to 2005 (as an arbitrary year that references my previous post) can find examples of me doing things that go against some of these suggestions. I ve learned things since then, it s an ongoing process.
A good friend of mine convinced me to give "The Wire" a try. I've just
finished season four of five. This is the best TV programme I have ever seen.
I'd have a renewed faith in the TV industry's quality standards
were it not for the fact it stands alone, quality-wise.
In the past, several of my
Update: This wlog entry uses aggressive tone
because I somehow needed to vent frustration from using some of
the tools. I should probably provide some constructive critics,
too... but this is a rant. Be warned.
Keysigning is useless. I boot up
This is it! xulrunner now builds and successfully runs the checks and xpcshell-tests on all release architectures, including arm, mips, powerpc and sparc, that were all failing 2 weeks ago. 2 patch pulled from upstream, 5 patches written and sent upstream, and several more as not quite successful attempts.
What puzzles me is that e.g. the arm issue in the test suite has been known upstream for a year, yet Firefox was released on maemo (arm) without it being fixed. I mean, it only took me a few hours (if you don t count the time lost waiting for the builds to end), starting with no specific knowledge of arm, and even less of jit compilers.
Anyways, this all means work on 1.9.2 can go on.
Every winter I just get incredibly damp and depressed
Well this year, I ve found an ultimate remedy + stress reliever since I m all jumpy around DebConf11 decision coming around this Saturday
So to whoever has the same problem during winter take your board/skies (whatever your fix is) and hit the mountains! This weekend I went to Bosnian Olympic mountain













The
Application Indicators: A Case of Canonical Upstream
Involvement and its Problems
I always thought Canonical could do a bit more to contribute to the GNOME
project, so I was happy to see the work on
This is getting old news, and others have blogged about them before I
did, but here's my summary of the recent activity in and around
FusionForge.
The early February meeting was a success, and gathered about twenty
people on the first day and a dozen or so on the second day (not
planned initially). My impression is that there was a healthy mix of
FusionForge hackers, FusionForge users, and people from other forge
communities (Codendi, NovaForge, and even one representative from
nFORGE, from South Korea). I'm not going to repeat all that was said
then, especially since the
For quite a while we are receiving TV via Internet. The original reason is that I got at most 2 MBit/s via ADSL due to line noise, but VDSL supports 25 MBit/s on the same line. Of course, you couldn t order the DSL line without also getting a phone flat rate and IPTV.
Most of the channels are encrypted and can only be received with the original Media Receiver , which is a proprietary (and Microsoft) solution. But at least, I can watch the public service broadcasts using
ISPs fight a raging war over
Most times when I blog about WebKitGTK+ it s to talk about new features, and their usage in Epiphany. This time I d like to tell those who care more about our test infrastructure. Like I said in my
I've been overhauling the way that I am host a number of virtual websites upon my main box. Partly to increase security, and partly for a cleaner separation or roles, ownership, and control. (In general everything on my box is "mine", but some things are "ours"...)
After a fair amount of experimentation I decided that I wasn't willing or able to rewrite all my Apache mod_rewrite rules just yet. So my interim plan was to update each existing virtual host:
I opened
Until today you could only use reportbug-ng to query the
Sarah got a call from the contractor on the weekend, saying he wanted to
make a start on the kitchen demolition on Wednesday. So we've moved
everything from the kitchen into the living room (fridge and stove
included), and they started work today.
Boy, did they start!
It's all gone already. All of the cabinets, and the existing lighting, and
the fan.
Here's how it looked last night:
I'm glad to see that Sam 'When All Else Fails, Call 'Em Racists' Varghese
has admitted that he's